# 297: Different Drives Q&A: Is It Reasonable To Masturbate? How To Get My Spouse To Want Sex More? How Can I Up My Drive?

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Podcast: [Kingdom Sexuality](https://stenobird.com/podcast/kingdom-sexuality-3146181)
Published: 2026-07-21T19:14:00+00:00
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## Resource

Have a different drive than your spouse? Tune in as we answer follower questions around the desire gap! Whether you're the high or low desire spouse, this episode is packed with insights to help you connect and communicate better! ⁠Watch the episode on YouTube!!⁠ Our Episodes: ⁠  Dr. Morgan Cutlip episode⁠ Our Products: ⁠OUT OF SYNC Audio Course!⁠ ⁠Get on the waitlist for our Orgasm Course here!⁠ ⁠Figuring Out What I Like Guide⁠ Resources: ⁠Everlywell⁠: use that link to get 15% off! ⁠⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Bible Verse Discussion - 1:02 Listener Questions Introduction - 1:33 Question: Lower Drive Concerns - 2:01 Medical and Medication Advice - 2:35 Responsive vs. Spontaneous Desire - 4:27 Tips for Spontaneous Spouses - 6:38 Overcoming Guilt in Relationships - 11:46 Productive Conversations - 17:08 Masturbation and Marriage - 21:03 Course Promotion and Conclusion - 26:49 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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