# 284: "Help! Our Sex Drives Are Different!"

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Podcast: [Kingdom Sexuality](https://stenobird.com/podcast/kingdom-sexuality-3146181)
Published: 2026-04-20T07:00:00+00:00
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Tune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera tackle the incredibly common topic of mismatched libido- having a different sex drive than your spouse! Whether you're the higher or lower drive spouse, you'll learn how to start the open communication to create a thriving sex life. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Products: Figuring Out What I Like Guide Resources: Get on the Mismatched Libido Audio Course waitlist HERE! Email us to get on the Finishing Well Orgasm Course waitlist!! kingdomsexuality@gmail.com Come As You Are book ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Episode Timestamps Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Episode Overview - 0:21 Sponsor Break - 1:18 Discussion on Mismatched Libido - 1:25 Understanding Desire Types - 6:01 Responsive vs. Spontaneous Desire - 7:29 Dual Control Model - 19:26 Communication and Compromise - 23:23 Course Information and Conclusion - 34:09 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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