# E118 Breakups, Second Breakups, and Meet Cutes

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Podcast: [Kinda Hot Kinda Healthy With Maddy Martinez and Ali Larrabee](https://stenobird.com/podcast/kinda-hot-kinda-healthy-with-maddy-martinez-and-ali-larrabee-6709120)
Published: 2026-01-28T12:00:00+00:00
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Duration seconds: 4402

## Resource

Welcome back to your two favorite girlies! We are BACK with another in person episode and we are so sorry to say, the audio had some challenges so bear with us. Today we dove in head first to Maddy's dating updates from her first relationship post divorce. EBAY man is OUT, and Mr. Meet cute is in?? Only time will tell Listen to our VERY first in person episode from last April here: https://youtu.be/O17uJRACFeo?si=cccpluKvFC343OyQ Maddy would love to hear what you think about Mr. Meet cute drop it here ! https://bit.ly/KHKH-ask-my-question Download Maddy's Mindset audios here: https://www.nourishandliftpgh.com/menopause-mindset-program.html Shop our favorites here! Shop Maddy's favorite redlight here and save: https://tinyurl.com/kindahot-hooga Message Ali MOMBUTT to get the mom butt guide or AUTOPILOT to get the meals you can make on autopilot Find Ali here on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aliwagnercoaching/ Find Maddy here on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddymartinez.coaching?igsh=M3djYWY5YWltYzE%3D&utm_source=qr Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and send us your health / relationship / life / just need advice on, submit your questions here: https://bit.ly/KHKH-ask-my-question Find us on all streaming platforms here, including the full video experience on our YouTube channel 🫶 https://bit.ly/kindahotkindahealthypod 0:00- reminiscing on our last visit 4:30- Dating updates - ending things with Ebay Man 18:30- the 24 hour rule 21:00- safety the familiar… even when it's chaos 26:00- asking yourself "WHY" 32:00- meet Mr. Meet Cute 39:00- are we even OPEN to a relationship? 49:00- the art of being detached 51:00- married, sad, and a lot of inflammation 53:00- avoiding the parasocial relationship 1:05:00- timelines have been set This doc…

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