# Dating After Divorce: Confidence, Self-Trust & Starting Over (Ep.74) Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757/dating-after-divorce-confidence-self-trust-starting-over-ep-74 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757/dating-after-divorce-confidence-self-trust-starting-over-ep-74.md Podcast: [Just Ask Her - Dating Advice for Single Men](https://stenobird.com/podcast/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757) Published: 2026-04-29T11:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gracie-pleschourt5/episodes/Dating-After-Divorce-Confidence--Self-Trust--Starting-Over-Ep-74-e3ijqth Audio file: https://traffic.megaphone.fm/APO3270532322.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757/episodes/dating-after-divorce-confidence-self-trust-starting-over-ep-74 Duration seconds: 3134 ## Resource Dating after a long-term relationship can feel overwhelming—but how do you actually know when you're ready to start again? In this episode of Just Ask Her, we break down dating after divorce, confidence, and how to rebuild your identity in relationships. We respond to real listener questions about starting over after a 20+ year relationship, dating with disabilities, and navigating long-distance relationships without losing connection. If you’ve ever felt unsure, behind, or stuck in your dating life, this episode will give you a new perspective. Whether you're getting back out there or trying to build confidence from scratch, this conversation will help you approach dating with clarity, self-trust, and intention. Self-Made Man Dating Journal - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1 Use Coupon SMMAN20OFF when purchasing Journal for 20% off. Submission Form: https://forms.gle/e7LTvCkT1fhkFQEF8 Time Stamps / Chapters: 00:00 Dating after divorce questions 00:27 Podcast intro + episode setup 02:55 Listener submission: 20+ year relationship & divorce 06:11 “How do I know if I’m ready to date again?” 07:11 Why readiness isn’t a clear signal 10:46 Talking about your past without centering your ex 14:39 Protecting yourself vs. building discernment 17:35 Trusting yourself in dating again 19:11 Dating with disabilities: listener question 20:07 Worth vs. circumstances explained 23:21 Best ways to meet women (beyond apps) 28:30 Long-distance relationship question 36:17 How to maintain connection long-distance 40:30 Depth vs. frequency in communication 43:01 Avoiding neediness in long-distance dating 47:02 Final advice + wrap-up #DatingAdvice #DatingAfterDivorce #LongDistanceRelationship Keywords: dating after divorce, how to know if ready to date, dating confidence for men,… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757/episodes/dating-after-divorce-confidence-self-trust-starting-over-ep-74/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757/dating-after-divorce-confidence-self-trust-starting-over-ep-74.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.