# From Avoidant to Secure: How to Overcome Your Fear of Conflict with Dean Graziosi Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/jillian-on-love-5638873/from-avoidant-to-secure-how-to-overcome-your-fear-of-conflict-with-dean-graziosi Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/jillian-on-love-5638873/from-avoidant-to-secure-how-to-overcome-your-fear-of-conflict-with-dean-graziosi.md Podcast: [Jillian on Love](https://stenobird.com/podcast/jillian-on-love-5638873) Published: 2026-04-13T07:10:00+00:00 Episode link: https://qcodemedia.com/jillian-on-love Audio file: https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/titlepl.us/redirect.mp3/DAYLIGHT/3/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD2500474217.mp3?updated=1776090527 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/jillian-on-love-5638873/episodes/from-avoidant-to-secure-how-to-overcome-your-fear-of-conflict-with-dean-graziosi Duration seconds: 4188 ## Resource What if the reason your relationships aren’t working… has more to do with you than you think? In this conversation, I sit down with Dean Graziosi for a deeply honest look at the patterns we carry into love—often without realizing it. We talk about what it actually means to take 100% responsibility for your past, how childhood experiences quietly shape the way you show up in conflict, and why avoiding hard conversations will always cost you connection. Dean shares the moment that changed everything for him—the shift from asking “what do I want in a partner?” to “who do I need to become to attract that?” Join Dean and Tony’s free AI Advantage Summit, April 23-25: https://aiadvantagesummit.com/rsvp-now Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/jillian-on-love-5638873/episodes/from-avoidant-to-secure-how-to-overcome-your-fear-of-conflict-with-dean-graziosi/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/jillian-on-love-5638873/from-avoidant-to-secure-how-to-overcome-your-fear-of-conflict-with-dean-graziosi.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.