# It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630.md RSS feed: https://feeds.transistor.fm/itsallyourfault Official site: https://trustory.fm/its-all-your-fault Author: TruStory FM Episodes: 210 ## Resource Hosted by Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. and Megan Hunter, MBA, It’s All Your Fault! High Conflict People explores the five types of people who can ruin your life—people with high conflict personalities and how they weave themselves into our lives in romance, at work, next door, at school, places of worship, and just about everywhere, causing chaos, exhaustion, and dread for everyone else. They are the most difficult of difficult people — some would say they’re toxic. Without them, tv shows, movies, and the news would be boring, but who wants to live that way in your own life! Have you ever wanted to know what drives them to act this way? In the It’s All Your Fault podcast, we’ll take you behind the scenes to understand what’s happening in the brain and illuminates why we pick HCPs as life partners, why we hire them, and how we can handle interactions and relationships with them. We break down everything you ever wanted to know about people with the 5 high conflict personality types: narcissistic, borderline, histrionic, antisocial/sociopath, and paranoid. And we’ll give you tips on how to spot them and how to deal with them. ## Machine-readable JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630 Markdown: https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630.md ## Episodes - [How to Leave a High Conflict Relationship Without Escalating](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/how-to-leave-a-high-conflict-relationship-without-escalating) — 2026-05-28T10:00:00+00:00 - [How Validation Calms the Brain: The Science of EAR Statements](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/how-validation-calms-the-brain-the-science-of-ear-statements) — 2026-05-21T10:00:00+00:00 - [When It's Not Your Fault: Blame, Backlash, and Setting Limits](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/when-it-s-not-your-fault-blame-backlash-and-setting-limits) — 2026-05-14T10:00:00+00:00 - [When No One Believes You About High Conflict](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/when-no-one-believes-you-about-high-conflict) — 2026-05-07T10:00:00+00:00 - [When Addiction Meets Custody: Building a Plan That Holds, Part 2](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/when-addiction-meets-custody-building-a-plan-that-holds-part-2) — 2026-04-30T10:00:00+00:00 - [When Addiction and Antisocial Behavior Collide in Custody](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/when-addiction-and-antisocial-behavior-collide-in-custody) — 2026-04-23T10:00:00+00:00 - [Why Your Child Absorbs Your Emotions](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/why-your-child-absorbs-your-emotions) — 2026-04-16T10:00:00+00:00 - [Passive Aggressive Behavior: Is It High Conflict?](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/passive-aggressive-behavior-is-it-high-conflict) — 2026-03-19T10:00:00+00:00 - [Conflict Creators: Why Drama Gets Into Our Heads](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/conflict-creators-why-drama-gets-into-our-heads) — 2026-03-12T10:00:00+00:00 - [High Conflict Behavior at Work Part 2 with Michael Lomax](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/high-conflict-behavior-at-work-part-2-with-michael-lomax) — 2026-03-05T11:00:00+00:00 - [High Conflict Behavior at Work with Michael Lomax](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/high-conflict-behavior-at-work-with-michael-lomax) — 2026-02-26T11:00:00+00:00 - [Setting Boundaries in High Conflict Situations](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/setting-boundaries-in-high-conflict-situations) — 2026-02-19T11:00:00+00:00 - [Can High Conflict Relationships Ever Become Truly Mutual? Setting Realistic Expectations and Boundaries](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/can-high-conflict-relationships-ever-become-truly-mutual-setting-realistic-expectations-and-boundaries) — 2026-02-12T11:00:00+00:00 - [Beyond No-Contact: High Conflict Skills for Family Relationships](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/beyond-no-contact-high-conflict-skills-for-family-relationships) — 2026-02-05T11:00:00+00:00 - [SLIC Solutions for Limits: How to Set Boundaries That Actually Work (with Ekaterina Ricci)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/slic-solutions-for-limits-how-to-set-boundaries-that-actually-work-with-ekaterina-ricci) — 2026-01-29T11:00:00+00:00 - [Self-Compassion and DBT: How New Treatment Approaches Transform BPD Recovery with Amanda Smith](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/self-compassion-and-dbt-how-new-treatment-approaches-transform-bpd-recovery-with-amanda-smith) — 2026-01-22T11:00:00+00:00 - [Worth Repeating: Protecting Elderly Loved Ones from High Conflict Manipulation](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/worth-repeating-protecting-elderly-loved-ones-from-high-conflict-manipulation) — 2026-01-15T11:00:00+00:00 - [Worth Repeating: Setting Limits Without Public Exposure to Manage Difficult Behavior](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/worth-repeating-setting-limits-without-public-exposure-to-manage-difficult-behavior) — 2026-01-08T11:00:00+00:00 - [Worth Repeating: Skills Over Discipline to Transform Workplace Conflict with Cherolyn Knapp](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/worth-repeating-skills-over-discipline-to-transform-workplace-conflict-with-cherolyn-knapp) — 2025-12-18T11:00:00+00:00 - [Worth Repeating: Finding Your Path Forward with High Conflict Parents](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/worth-repeating-finding-your-path-forward-with-high-conflict-parents) — 2025-12-11T11:00:00+00:00 - [Worth Repeating: Turning Down High Conflict at Work with Cherolyn Knapp](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/worth-repeating-turning-down-high-conflict-at-work-with-cherolyn-knapp) — 2025-12-04T11:00:00+00:00 - [Worth Repeating: High-Conflict Holiday Guide](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/worth-repeating-high-conflict-holiday-guide) — 2025-11-27T10:00:00+00:00 - [Setting Limits That Stick: The SLIC Method for Effective Boundaries](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/setting-limits-that-stick-the-slic-method-for-effective-boundaries) — 2025-11-13T11:00:00+00:00 - [Choosing Safe Partners: Understanding Red Flags in Dating with Dr. David Wexler](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/choosing-safe-partners-understanding-red-flags-in-dating-with-dr-david-wexler) — 2025-11-06T11:00:00+00:00 - [Healthcare Conflict Solutions: Managing Hospital Tensions in High-Stress Environments with Dr. Jeff Stuart](https://stenobird.com/podcast/it-s-all-your-fault-high-conflict-people-5633630/healthcare-conflict-solutions-managing-hospital-tensions-in-high-stress-environments-with-dr-jeff-stuart) — 2025-10-30T10:00:00+00:00 ## Actions Episode pages expose an explicit `request_transcript` action. 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