# 18. What If I Have Desire, but Not for My Husband? Clear Steps on What To Do.

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Podcast: [Intimacy for Working Moms | Desire, Relationships, Sexuality, Romance, Marriage](https://stenobird.com/podcast/intimacy-for-working-moms-desire-relationships-sexuality-romance-marriage-7685282)
Published: 2026-06-15T09:00:00+00:00
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## Resource

Do you have sexual desire within you, but not for your husband? Do you feel shame or guilt by not having a sense of desire for your husband? This is a very difficult truth to admit and an easy one to swipe under the rug as unimportant, especially relative to other priorities like family, kids and our jobs. This episode normalizes fluctuations in desire in long-term relationships, and creates a safe space to invite women to explore the root cause of a lack of desire for their husbands. The episode gives some solutions for moving forward that are sustainable for all relationship structures including traditional monogamy, ethical- non monogamy (ENM) and polyamory. Next Steps: 1. Join the free Facebook Group Intimacy for Working Moms 2. Sign up for my weekly newsletter 3. Follow me on Instagram Sign up for 1 on 1 coaching to explore how to boost your desire for your husband tailored to your unique circumstances!

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