# 04. Sick of Feeling Like Sex is a "Should"? Try the "Get To" Approach Instead.

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Podcast: [Intimacy for Working Moms | Desire, Relationships, Sexuality, Romance, Marriage](https://stenobird.com/podcast/intimacy-for-working-moms-desire-relationships-sexuality-romance-marriage-7685282)
Published: 2026-03-10T00:00:00+00:00
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## Resource

Is your sex life with your partner boring and routine? Does sex feel like a chore? Are you in a pattern in your sex life that you want to change? In this episode, I'm sharing my "Get To" approach for sex, a mindset shift that will flip the script from sex being something that you have to do or should do, into something that you get to do. We explore how much sex you actually want to be having as a busy working mom, and explain positive reasons of why sex is good for you, allowing you to come up with "get to" statements that fit into your current sex life with your partner, so you can start looking forward to sex again! Next Steps: Please connect with me on Facebook and join our private group at Intimacy for Working Moms to ask questions, share experiences and learn from other women on their sexual wellness journeys. Connect -> Join our free Facebook Group Intimacy for Working Moms

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