# The Success Lie: Chantell Preston on Identity, Trauma, and Rebuilding After the Exit Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/innerspace-deep-meaningful-conversations-with-brett-kaufman-185648/the-success-lie-chantell-preston-on-identity-trauma-and-rebuilding-after-the-exit Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/innerspace-deep-meaningful-conversations-with-brett-kaufman-185648/the-success-lie-chantell-preston-on-identity-trauma-and-rebuilding-after-the-exit.md Podcast: [Innerspace: Deep, Meaningful Conversations with Brett Kaufman](https://stenobird.com/podcast/innerspace-deep-meaningful-conversations-with-brett-kaufman-185648) Published: 2026-03-09T08:00:32+00:00 Episode link: https://joininnerspace.com/ Audio file: https://audio4.redcircle.com/episodes/1c174b1b-1fae-438b-a4ed-165e3aaf9df9/stream.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/innerspace-deep-meaningful-conversations-with-brett-kaufman-185648/episodes/the-success-lie-chantell-preston-on-identity-trauma-and-rebuilding-after-the-exit Duration seconds: 3373 ## Resource Chantell Preston sold her healthcare company at 41 and thought she'd finally made it. What followed were the two hardest years of her life. In this episode, Chantell traces the full arc: a childhood defined by divorce, abandonment, and a controlling home in Oklahoma. A teenage relationship that turned physically abusive and why she couldn't leave. The drive to prove herself that became the fuel of her entrepreneurial career, and the price she paid for it in every relationship that mattered. When the business sold, so did her identity. The title was gone. The family was fracturing. And for the first time, she had to sit with the question she'd been outrunning her whole life: who am I without all of this? Chantell is now an investor, author, podcast host, and co-owner of a professional volleyball expansion team in San Francisco. But the most meaningful work she's doing today can't be put on a business card. This is a conversation about what success actually costs and what it takes to finally come home to yourself. ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/innerspace-deep-meaningful-conversations-with-brett-kaufman-185648/episodes/the-success-lie-chantell-preston-on-identity-trauma-and-rebuilding-after-the-exit/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/innerspace-deep-meaningful-conversations-with-brett-kaufman-185648/the-success-lie-chantell-preston-on-identity-trauma-and-rebuilding-after-the-exit.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.