# The Psychology of the Soul: Vanessa Bennett on Depth Healing, Motherhood, and Breaking Generational Patterns Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/innerspace-deep-meaningful-conversations-with-brett-kaufman-185648/the-psychology-of-the-soul-vanessa-bennett-on-depth-healing-motherhood-and-breaking-generational-patterns Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/innerspace-deep-meaningful-conversations-with-brett-kaufman-185648/the-psychology-of-the-soul-vanessa-bennett-on-depth-healing-motherhood-and-breaking-generational-patterns.md Podcast: [Innerspace: Deep, Meaningful Conversations with Brett Kaufman](https://stenobird.com/podcast/innerspace-deep-meaningful-conversations-with-brett-kaufman-185648) Published: 2026-02-19T18:59:36+00:00 Episode link: https://joininnerspace.com/ Audio file: https://audio4.redcircle.com/episodes/43b197de-54ad-4ad3-9958-164863d85621/stream.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/innerspace-deep-meaningful-conversations-with-brett-kaufman-185648/episodes/the-psychology-of-the-soul-vanessa-bennett-on-depth-healing-motherhood-and-breaking-generational-patterns Duration seconds: 3978 ## Resource Vanessa Bennett is a depth psychologist, therapist, and author of The Motherhood Myth. In this conversation, Brett and Vanessa go all the way back. Vanessa grew up as a parentified child in a single-parent home — the overachiever who learned early that love was something you earned through achievement, not something freely given. At 25, a close friend told her she always seemed angry. That one honest observation cracked her open. It sent her into therapy, yoga, Al-Anon, and eventually across the country — alone, at 30 — to leave her career in New York advertising, end a long-term relationship, and start over completely. Her work now sits at the intersection of depth psychology, spirituality, and the real, unfiltered experience of being human. And when she became a mother, two weeks before COVID lockdown, the myths she'd spent years studying became impossible to ignore. This is a conversation about what actually heals us. And what gets in the way. ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/innerspace-deep-meaningful-conversations-with-brett-kaufman-185648/episodes/the-psychology-of-the-soul-vanessa-bennett-on-depth-healing-motherhood-and-breaking-generational-patterns/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/innerspace-deep-meaningful-conversations-with-brett-kaufman-185648/the-psychology-of-the-soul-vanessa-bennett-on-depth-healing-motherhood-and-breaking-generational-patterns.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.