# 384 Do It the Easy Way (The Hard Way Is Keeping You Stuck) Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/i-have-adhd-podcast-76806/384-do-it-the-easy-way-the-hard-way-is-keeping-you-stuck Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/i-have-adhd-podcast-76806/384-do-it-the-easy-way-the-hard-way-is-keeping-you-stuck.md Podcast: [I Have ADHD Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/i-have-adhd-podcast-76806) Published: 2026-03-10T09:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://rss.art19.com/episodes/2b3a32d1-89da-4278-8e23-d0a64039c6d9.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0 Audio file: https://rss.art19.com/episodes/2b3a32d1-89da-4278-8e23-d0a64039c6d9.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/i-have-adhd-podcast-76806/episodes/384-do-it-the-easy-way-the-hard-way-is-keeping-you-stuck Duration seconds: 2860 ## Resource What if the easiest version of the task is actually the smartest one? In this episode, we’re talking about the path of least resistance — and why for ADHD brains, it’s not laziness. It’s strategy. The path of least resistance is the version of a task that: Requires the least activation energy Uses the least executive function Hurts the least Gets you moving the fastest Not the A+ version. Not the neurotypical version. The version you can actually do. So why don’t we take it? Perfectionism. Russell Ramsay calls perfectionism the number one cognitive distortion in adults with ADHD. It sounds like, “If I’m going to do it, I have to do it right.” But “right” usually means the hardest, most optimized version — which often means we don’t do it at all. We’ll talk about: Why 70% done changes your life How all-or-nothing thinking keeps you stuck The moral layer that makes “easy” feel like cheating Why the hard way is often the never-finished way Plus, I’ll give you a simple coaching tool to use when you’re stuck: What is the easiest possible version of this? Because forward motion builds momentum. Momentum builds self-trust. And self-trust changes everything. Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED ! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info . ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/i-have-adhd-podcast-76806/episodes/384-do-it-the-easy-way-the-hard-way-is-keeping-you-stuck/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/i-have-adhd-podcast-76806/384-do-it-the-easy-way-the-hard-way-is-keeping-you-stuck.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.