# The Trigger Is The Guru — How BB Learned Not To Take It Personally | Astrology Ride of the Day

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Podcast: [I Am Astrology Readings Podcast with Paul Heath](https://stenobird.com/podcast/i-am-astrology-readings-podcast-with-paul-heath-264985)
Published: 2026-06-09T19:00:00+00:00
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BB has close deep relationships that split. Then the people go their way and their lives vastly improve. Most of them come back eventually. She realized it's a contract. She projects what people need to see. The trigger is spirit knocking on your wound saying right here this is where the work is. Every trigger is always positive. The trigger is the guru. Paul asks how do you not take the lashing out personally. Years of practice. Then Mars in the 9th house — both Paul and BB share it. Words that cut and sever or heal. Brandelyn literally means woman who wields sword and beautiful healer. The church hurt you first so you built a church for people the church hurt. Did you give yourself enough credit for how far you've traveled? I've died and been reborn so many times in this one lifetime. Know thyself and balance your energy. Takeaways: When you trigger people and they leave their lives often improve — recognizing that as a contract changes how you experience the loss The trigger is the guru — it shows you exactly where healing is still needed and who is brave enough to do the work Not taking the lashing out personally takes years of practice — it doesn't come overnight Mars in the 9th house cuts with words and heals with words — knowing which one you're doing is the work The wound you survived becomes the platform you teach from — that's not coincidence that's design BB's Tiktok BB's Facebook . BB's Instagram Links referenced in this episode: iamastrologyreadings.com Companies mentioned in this episode: Iamastrologyreadings PayPal Venmo Cash App Support the mythic classroom: https://i-am-astrology-readings.captivate.fm/support Book a Reading: https://i-am-astrology-readings.captivate.fm/book-reading #astrologyrideoftheday

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