# How To Have Hot Group Sex

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Podcast: [How To Have Sex](https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-have-sex-7724627)
Published: 2026-09-08T07:00:00+00:00
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Duration seconds: 2760

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Grab an extra pillow. Actually, grab a few …. this week there's a waiting list outside the bedroom door. Jay-Jay Feeney and certified somatic sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes are back in bed together for one of the most requested (and most avoided) topics yet: group sex. It turns out this has quietly been one of Mel's ultimate fantasies all along, and once she's finally cornered into admitting it, the conversation goes places…. including her actual, very unplanned real-life experience, and Jay-Jay's confession that she's had not one, not two, but three threesomes. This episode is equal parts hilarious and genuinely useful. They dig into why the fantasy of "ten hot strangers" rarely survives contact with reality, what separates a threesome that's fun from one that quietly ends a relationship, and how jealousy shows up even when everyone agreed to the whole thing beforehand. They also get into the nuts and bolts nobody wants to ask about out loud: sexual health, testing, condom etiquette when there's more than two people involved, and what proper aftercare actually looks like once the night is over. In this episode: Why the fantasy version of group sex (control, safety, zero logistics) is nothing like the real thing Mel's honest, cringe-and-all retelling of her one experience with multiple partners, and everything she'd do differently Jay-Jay finally spills on her three threesomes, including the one that felt like a "tag team" and the one that didn't The difference between having a fantasy and actually wanting to live it out Jealousy, the fear of loss underneath it, and why it can wreck a relationship even when everyone consented going in Whether it's easier to explore this single, in an open relationship, or with your long-term partner How to actually bring it…

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