# Foreplay (Get into Bed with Jay-Jay & Mel) Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-have-sex-7724627/foreplay-get-into-bed-with-jay-jay-mel Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-have-sex-7724627/foreplay-get-into-bed-with-jay-jay-mel.md Podcast: [How To Have Sex](https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-have-sex-7724627) Published: 2026-03-24T06:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://shows.acast.com/how-to-have-sex/episodes/foreplay-get-in-bed-with-jay-jay-mel Audio file: https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/69bf678862f6c66afe2ccc16/media.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/how-to-have-sex-7724627/episodes/foreplay-get-into-bed-with-jay-jay-mel Duration seconds: 2555 ## Resource Welcome to How To Have Sex ... the podcast giving everyday New Zealanders the practical tools to have better, more confident, more satisfying sex lives. Before we get into the good stuff, we're starting where all great sex starts: foreplay . This episode is your introduction to hosts Jay-Jay Feeney - veteran NZ broadcaster, podcaster, and self-confessed awkward sex-talker, and Melissa Vranjes, certified holistic sex and relationship coach, somatic therapist, and founder of Sex School. We get into bed (literally), share how this podcast came to be, and start pulling back the covers on everything from the orgasm gap and sexual confidence, to why most of us learned about sex from porn, and why that's a problem. No shame. No judgment. Just two women in bed having the conversations everyone's secretly Googling. For adults 18+. Headphones recommended. 🎙️ Follow, subscribe, and leave us a review. It helps more people find us! This podcast was produced at PodLab Studios , Auckland https://www.podlab.co.nz/ Bedding by Dehei https://dehei.co/ Support the podcast! https://buymeacoffee.com/howtohavesex INSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/howtohavesexpodcast FACEBOOK https://www.facebook.com/HowToHaveSexPodcast TIKTOK https://www.tiktok.com/@how.to.have.sex.p YOUTUBE https://www.youtube.com/@Howtohavesexpodcast EMAIL howtohavesexpodcastnz@gmail.com HOSTS: Jay-Jay Feeney – Media Personality Instagram/TikTok: @JJFeeneyNZ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JayJayFeeney Melissa Vranjes – Certified Somatic Sex & Relationship Coach www.melissavranjes.com Instagram: @melissavranjes Ready to feel more confident, connected, and turned on in your body? Join Sex School here: https://www.melissavranjes.com/sex-school Want more from Mel? She writes a weekly sex column for Woman's Day magazi… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/how-to-have-sex-7724627/episodes/foreplay-get-into-bed-with-jay-jay-mel/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-have-sex-7724627/foreplay-get-into-bed-with-jay-jay-mel.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.