# Giving and Receiving Feedback with Paul Tran Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-be-patient-7088688/giving-and-receiving-feedback-with-paul-tran Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-be-patient-7088688/giving-and-receiving-feedback-with-paul-tran.md Podcast: [How to Be Patient](https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-be-patient-7088688) Published: 2026-04-06T09:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://p.podderapp.com/9752035609/pscrb.fm/rss/p/traffic.megaphone.fm/TCAHH4060568725.mp3?updated=1775490086 Audio file: https://p.podderapp.com/9752035609/pscrb.fm/rss/p/traffic.megaphone.fm/TCAHH4060568725.mp3?updated=1775490086 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/how-to-be-patient-7088688/episodes/giving-and-receiving-feedback-with-paul-tran Duration seconds: 4506 ## Resource I’m flying solo for most of this one while Margaret is off saving dolphins (or just finishing a hospital admission ), but I’ve brought in a heavy hitter to help me tackle one of the most awkward parts of medical training: feedback. Paul Tran, the creative force behind Alimentary School, joins me to discuss why the feedback we give and receive in the clinic usually, to put it bluntly, sucks. We dive into the "Politeness Concept," where supervisors give a quick "good job" just to save face and get out of the room, leaving learners with zero actionable data. Paul introduces the concept of "Wise Feedback", 19 words that can completely change how a student engages with their work, and we break down the "Four T’s" of delivery: Tact, Timing, Intent, and Tone. From the trauma of childhood soccer critiques about our noses to the "glass-shattering" realizations of a former competitive figure skater, this episode is about turning subjective observations into meaningful coaching. Join Patreon Here: https://www.patreon.com/c/howtobepatientpod Go to Cozy Earth now for a Buy One Get One Free Pajama Offer from 1/25-2/8! Yes, go to ⁠⁠cozyearth.com⁠⁠ they are doing a BOGO pajama promo. Just use my Code: PATIENTBOGO -- Watch on YouTube: @itspresro Listen Anywhere You Podcast: Apple, Spotify, PodChaser, etc. — Produced by Dr Glaucomflecken & Human Content Get in Touch: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠howtobepatientpod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/how-to-be-patient-7088688/episodes/giving-and-receiving-feedback-with-paul-tran/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-be-patient-7088688/giving-and-receiving-feedback-with-paul-tran.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.