# 1153: How to Confidently Negotiate for What You Want with Attia Qureshi Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-be-awesome-at-your-job-956232/1153-how-to-confidently-negotiate-for-what-you-want-with-attia-qureshi Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-be-awesome-at-your-job-956232/1153-how-to-confidently-negotiate-for-what-you-want-with-attia-qureshi.md Podcast: [How to Be Awesome at Your Job](https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-be-awesome-at-your-job-956232) Published: 2026-05-18T06:30:00+00:00 Episode link: https://pdst.fm/e/prefix.up.audio/s/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/211/pscrb.fm/rss/p/rss.art19.com/episodes/98b64da2-a35a-422a-9a3d-8585291dde1b.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0 Audio file: https://pdst.fm/e/prefix.up.audio/s/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/211/pscrb.fm/rss/p/rss.art19.com/episodes/98b64da2-a35a-422a-9a3d-8585291dde1b.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/how-to-be-awesome-at-your-job-956232/episodes/1153-how-to-confidently-negotiate-for-what-you-want-with-attia-qureshi Duration seconds: 2457 ## Resource Attia Qureshi shares simple techniques to build up your negotiating skills, one step at a time. — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) How to take the fear and tension out of negotiating 2) The simple trick to arrive at more win-win solutions 3) How to feel comfortable making big asks and saying no Subscribe or visit   AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep1153  for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT ATTIA —  Attia Qureshi is a negotiation and influence expert, former MIT faculty member, adjunct professor at the University of Michigan, and the founder of Attia Qureshi Consulting — where she has spent two decades helping leaders, teams, and organizations negotiate better outcomes in every room they walk into. Her work spans Fortune 500 boardrooms, university classrooms, and conflict zones around the world, where she has negotiated on behalf of the U.S. State Department in some of the most complex environments imaginable. • Book:  Never Settle: Persuasion and Negotiation Skills to Get What You Want • Tool: Emotion Wheel • Website: AttiaQureshi.com — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Article: “Ask For A Raise? Most Women Hesitate” by Jennifer Ludden • Study: “Evolution of responses to (un)fairness” by Sarah F. Brosnan and Frans B.M. de Waal • Book:  Influence: Science and Practice by Robert Cialdini • Book: The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho • Past episode:  366: Mastering Conversations through Compassionate Curiosity with Kwame Christian • Past episode:  664: Dr. Robert Cialdini on How to Persuade with the 7 Universal Principles of Influence • Past episode:  873: Dr. Steven Hayes on Building a More Resilient and Flexible Mind — THANK YOU SPONSORS! —  •  Scribe.  Book a personalized enterprise demo with  scribe.how/awes… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/how-to-be-awesome-at-your-job-956232/episodes/1153-how-to-confidently-negotiate-for-what-you-want-with-attia-qureshi/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-be-awesome-at-your-job-956232/1153-how-to-confidently-negotiate-for-what-you-want-with-attia-qureshi.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.