# How to make (and keep) friends | from A Slight Change of Plans Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-be-a-better-human-1370259/how-to-make-and-keep-friends-from-a-slight-change-of-plans Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-be-a-better-human-1370259/how-to-make-and-keep-friends-from-a-slight-change-of-plans.md Podcast: [How to Be a Better Human](https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-be-a-better-human-1370259) Published: 2026-02-16T05:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://lnk.to/SCPHTBABH Audio file: https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/67572b3b2dd88df13220eb3b/e/69791d4215dde02bc677da69/media.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/how-to-be-a-better-human-1370259/episodes/how-to-make-and-keep-friends-from-a-slight-change-of-plans Duration seconds: 2238 ## Resource Many of us tend to prioritize our romantic and familial relationships over friendships — and that could be harming our wellbeing and health. In this special episode from our friends at A Slight Change of Plans, cognitive behavioral scientist and bestselling author Dr. Maya Shankar looks at how friendships expand our sense of self. Maya is joined by psychologist Dr. Marisa Franco, who offers research-based strategies to make new friends and deepen our existing friendships, including helpful concepts like mutuality and the mere-exposure effect. Marisa and Maya also discuss how to stay friends through big life changes, why fighting could make your friendship stronger, and how to break up with a friend with clarity and kindness. On A Slight Change of Plans, Maya explores how we experience change and provides strategies we can use to better navigate moments of upheaval. Find A Slight Change of Plans wherever you get podcasts. For the full text transcript, visit go.ted.com/BHTranscripts Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/how-to-be-a-better-human-1370259/episodes/how-to-make-and-keep-friends-from-a-slight-change-of-plans/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-be-a-better-human-1370259/how-to-make-and-keep-friends-from-a-slight-change-of-plans.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.