# Divorce: The Most Expensive Word You Can Say to Your Lawyer Is "Okay". Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-not-to-suck-at-divorce-4488361/divorce-the-most-expensive-word-you-can-say-to-your-lawyer-is-okay Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-not-to-suck-at-divorce-4488361/divorce-the-most-expensive-word-you-can-say-to-your-lawyer-is-okay.md Podcast: [How Not To Suck At Divorce](https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-not-to-suck-at-divorce-4488361) Published: 2026-07-29T05:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://hownottosuckatdivorce.com/ Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/2a480f3a-0957-44ec-9d59-98fb775e4225.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/how-not-to-suck-at-divorce-4488361/episodes/divorce-the-most-expensive-word-you-can-say-to-your-lawyer-is-okay Duration seconds: 908 ## Resource 🚨 Before You Spend Thousands More on Your Divorce... If you're navigating divorce and want to avoid the costly mistakes so many people make, grab our Divorce Crash Course today. Typically priced at $150, available now for just $50, thanks to our angel underwriters, Our Family Wizard and Soberlink. Inside you'll learn: How to avoid expensive legal mistakes What to expect throughout the divorce process How to communicate more effectively with your attorney The biggest financial pitfalls people don't see coming Practical strategies to save money, reduce stress, and make smarter decisions 👉 Get instant access today: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course Divorce: Don't Leave Your Lawyer's Office Confused (It Could Cost You Thousands) Have you ever walked out of your attorney's office, gotten into your car, and suddenly realized... "I don't actually know what we just decided." You're not alone. In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce , Andrea and family law attorney Morgan Stogsdill tackle one of the most common—and expensive—mistakes people make during divorce: pretending to understand or agree with a legal strategy when they really don't. Too many people stay quiet because they're embarrassed to ask questions, don't want to challenge their attorney, or need more time to process what they just heard. Unfortunately, that silence can lead to unnecessary legal fees, poor strategic decisions, and frustration for both you and your lawyer. Andrea and Morgan explain why speaking up isn't being difficult—it's being a smart client. In This Episode, We Discuss: Why so many people leave attorney meetings feeling confused The hidden cost of pretending you understand your legal strategy How to tell your attorney a proposed strategy doesn't feel right Why askin… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/how-not-to-suck-at-divorce-4488361/episodes/divorce-the-most-expensive-word-you-can-say-to-your-lawyer-is-okay/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-not-to-suck-at-divorce-4488361/divorce-the-most-expensive-word-you-can-say-to-your-lawyer-is-okay.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.