# Divorce SOS: What to Do When You’re Panicking Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-not-to-suck-at-divorce-4488361/divorce-issue-when-you-don-t-agree-with-your-attorney Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-not-to-suck-at-divorce-4488361/divorce-issue-when-you-don-t-agree-with-your-attorney.md Podcast: [How Not To Suck At Divorce](https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-not-to-suck-at-divorce-4488361) Published: 2026-07-03T05:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://hownottosuckatdivorce.com/ Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/ac8099ec-f54d-473c-9ffb-a912dd5f5d83.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/how-not-to-suck-at-divorce-4488361/episodes/divorce-issue-when-you-don-t-agree-with-your-attorney Duration seconds: 1790 ## Resource Divorce issue:When you don't agree with your attorney and Why Going Rogue Can Cost You Thousands 🎧 Before You Listen... Don't make expensive divorce mistakes. Our FREE guide, The 5 Divorce Mistakes That Cost People Thousands , will help you avoid some of the biggest legal, financial, and emotional mistakes people make before, during, and after divorce. 👉 Download it FREE here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com If you're ready for a deeper roadmap, our Divorce Crash Course walks you through the entire divorce process—from choosing the right attorney to protecting your finances and avoiding costly mistakes. Typically priced at $150, available now for just $50, thanks to our angel underwriters, Our Family Wizard and Soberlink. 👉 https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course Episode Description Every person going through divorce eventually reaches the same breaking point. You become convinced your attorney is wrong. The judge doesn't get it. The legal system is broken. And your brain starts whispering... "Forget it. I'll just handle this myself." Unfortunately, that's often the exact moment people make the most expensive mistake of their entire divorce. In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce , Andrea Rappaport and family law attorney Morgan Stogsdill are joined by Atlanta family law attorney Daniel Bloom to discuss why otherwise smart people make impulsive decisions during divorce, what "going rogue" really looks like, and how one emotional decision can cost you tens of thousands of dollars. From firing off an angry email to texting your ex after one too many drinks, this episode explains why patience, strategy, and emotional regulation can ultimately save your case—and your wallet. In This Episode You'll Learn: ✔ Why divorce makes even intelligent… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/how-not-to-suck-at-divorce-4488361/episodes/divorce-issue-when-you-don-t-agree-with-your-attorney/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-not-to-suck-at-divorce-4488361/divorce-issue-when-you-don-t-agree-with-your-attorney.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.