# 197. 5 Things You Should NEVER Do During a Divorce- And an Embarrasing Story- Mini Episode

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Podcast: [How Not To Suck At Divorce](https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-not-to-suck-at-divorce-4488361)
Published: 2026-03-18T05:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://hownottosuckatdivorce.com/
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## Resource

Divorce is emotional. It's stressful. And if you're not careful, it can also become incredibly expensive. In this mini episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce , Andrea Rappaport shares five things you should absolutely never do during a divorce — from serious legal mistakes that can impact your case to a few embarrassing (but very real) moments she experienced during her own divorce. Because when emotions are running high, it’s easy to make decisions that feel good in the moment but can create bigger problems later . Whether you're navigating divorce right now or trying to prepare for what lies ahead, these practical tips will help you avoid common pitfalls and stay focused on what actually matters. Why Divorce Mistakes Can Cost You More Than You Think One of the hardest parts of divorce is that you’re making major legal and financial decisions while under extreme emotional stress . During this episode, Andrea explains why some of the most common divorce mistakes happen when people: react emotionally instead of strategically rely on advice from the wrong sources allow their ex to provoke them into conflict bring outside people into the legal drama Learning how to pause, reset, and respond thoughtfully can save you thousands of dollars in attorney’s fees — and a lot of unnecessary stress. The 5 Divorce Mistakes You Should Never Make 1. Taking Legal Advice From Friends Who Got Divorced in Another State (or Another Decade) Divorce laws vary dramatically depending on where you live and when the divorce occurs . Andrea explains why taking advice from a friend who was divorced years ago — or in another state — can create unrealistic expectations and costly confusion . For example: Some states are more likely to award long-term alimony Other states focus on short-term rehabilit…

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