# 193. When I Knew It Was Time to Leave My Marriage: Personal Divorce Story- Mini Episode

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Podcast: [How Not To Suck At Divorce](https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-not-to-suck-at-divorce-4488361)
Published: 2026-03-04T10:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://hownottosuckatdivorce.com/
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Duration seconds: 887

## Resource

How do you know when it’s truly time to leave your marriage? In this mini episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce , Andrea Rappaport shares the deeply personal story of how she knew her marriage was over — and the warning signs she ignored long before she finally said the words, “I want a divorce.” Andrea talks openly about the quiet red flags that started as whispers, the gut feelings she tried to ignore, and the emotional toll of staying in a relationship that wasn’t healthy or sustainable. If you’re questioning your marriage, feeling lonely in your relationship, or wondering if divorce might be the right next step, this episode offers an honest and compassionate perspective. Sometimes the hardest part of divorce isn’t the legal process — it’s acknowledging what your heart has already been trying to tell you. This episode is about learning to listen to those whispers before they become screams. In This Episode Andrea shares: The early red flags she ignored while dating Why unhealthy relationships can feel familiar and “normal” The emotional experience of living in a marriage that doesn’t feel right What it feels like to avoid going home because the relationship feels so lonely Why many people stay in marriages long after they know something is wrong The moment Andrea finally said “I want a divorce” Why gathering information about divorce can help you feel more empowered The importance of having a safe place to talk about what you're going through If You’re Wondering Whether It’s Time to Leave Your Marriage If you're asking yourself questions like: Is my marriage over? Why do I feel so lonely in my relationship? How do I know when it's time to get divorced? What does it feel like when a marriage isn't working anymore? You are not alone. Many people experience the same d…

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