# Why visualising success might be sabotaging you, with Nir Eyal (Part 2) Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-i-work-960132/why-visualising-success-might-be-sabotaging-you-with-nir-eyal-part-2 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-i-work-960132/why-visualising-success-might-be-sabotaging-you-with-nir-eyal-part-2.md Podcast: [How I Work](https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-i-work-960132) Published: 2026-03-18T19:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://omny.fm/shows/how-i-work/hiw-nir-part-2-v1 Audio file: https://mgln.ai/e/187/traffic.omny.fm/d/clips/fa326977-3de5-4283-9b8b-af3500c58607/190bd54e-82e6-43fb-8f6a-af46001792de/1cc3e023-0005-4c29-9f7a-b40900206623/audio.mp3?utm_source=Podcast&in_playlist=71f0c47d-eac4-4e42-b713-af46001792ec Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/how-i-work-960132/episodes/why-visualising-success-might-be-sabotaging-you-with-nir-eyal-part-2 Duration seconds: 1380 ## Resource Visualising success feels productive. Vision boards, manifesting, picturing the finish line. It gives the sense that you’re moving closer to the goal.  But according to the research, that mental shortcut might actually be working against you.  In Part 2 of this two-parter ( listen to Part 1 here ), I continue my conversation with behavioural scientist and author Nir Eyal to unpack why. Nir spent six years researching how beliefs shape what we see, feel, and do, and why the stories we tell ourselves can dramatically change our behaviour.  We talk about the surprising power of “failure goals”, why lucky people often manufacture their own luck, and how leaders shape behaviour through the invisible simulations they create at work. Nir also explains why framing matters more than many leaders realise, and why the way you interpret discomfort can completely change how you perform.  And when it comes to visualisation, Nir shares a key insight from elite sport. High-performing athletes aren’t picturing themselves standing on the podium. They’re visualising the moment things get hard, and exactly what they’ll do next.  Nir and I discuss:   Why setting a  failure goal  can actually increase your chances of success  The study that shows why some people experience themselves as “lucky”  How beliefs shape what we see, feel, and do in everyday life  Why leaders are effectively  designing simulations  through workplace culture  The powerful role of  framing  when introducing ideas to teams  The “believe, anticipate, feel, con… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/how-i-work-960132/episodes/why-visualising-success-might-be-sabotaging-you-with-nir-eyal-part-2/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-i-work-960132/why-visualising-success-might-be-sabotaging-you-with-nir-eyal-part-2.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.