# being a bridesmaid: the bad, the bad, the ugly

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Podcast: [hot pursuit by AsianBossGirl](https://stenobird.com/podcast/hot-pursuit-by-asianbossgirl-495622)
Published: 2026-01-27T11:00:00+00:00
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bachelorette trips, bridezillas, & financial ruin... oh my! the girls of hot pursuit share some (a lot) of rants & woes about the exhausting experience of being a bridesmaid, but would we do it again for our best friends in every lifetime in a heartbeat. 0:00 reading listener nightmare stories 7:40 bridezillas and entitlement 9:50 bridesmaid makeup and dresses really ain’t it 16:04 unconventional bridesmaid approaches? 17:31 bachelorette trip faves & rants 27:32 would all of this exist without social media? 29:52 do the bride and groom deserve a gift? 32:04 shoutout to the maid of honors 35:02 welcome party exhaustion 38:35 where are the cute groomsmen?! 40:42 so, would we have bridesmaids? CONNECT WITH US Connect with us @thehotpursuitpod on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube. Email us at ⁠hello@thehotpursuitpod.com⁠. Learn more at ⁠thehotpursuitpod.com⁠. THE HOT PURSUIT PODCAST: Hosted and written by: Jennifer Han, Emily Lin, and Madelyn Ong Produced by: Hot Pursuit Media and AsianBossGirl Edited by: Josh Jang Theme song composed by: Shawn Halim Art by: Kelsey Cordutsky Motion Graphics by: Matt Ebling Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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