# The People Pleasing Trap: How High Achieving Women Can Stop Over-giving and Reclaim Their Energy Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/hopeful-and-wholesome-wellness-human-design-somatic-healing-for-high-achieving-women-and-entrepreneurs-192797/the-people-pleasing-trap-how-high-achieving-women-can-stop-over-giving-and-reclaim-their-energy Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/hopeful-and-wholesome-wellness-human-design-somatic-healing-for-high-achieving-women-and-entrepreneurs-192797/the-people-pleasing-trap-how-high-achieving-women-can-stop-over-giving-and-reclaim-their-energy.md Podcast: [Hopeful and Wholesome: Wellness, Human Design & Somatic Healing for High-Achieving Women and Entrepreneurs](https://stenobird.com/podcast/hopeful-and-wholesome-wellness-human-design-somatic-healing-for-high-achieving-women-and-entrepreneurs-192797) Published: 2026-05-19T08:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2117648/episodes/19098481-the-people-pleasing-trap-how-high-achieving-women-can-stop-over-giving-and-reclaim-their-energy.mp3 Audio file: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2117648/episodes/19098481-the-people-pleasing-trap-how-high-achieving-women-can-stop-over-giving-and-reclaim-their-energy.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/hopeful-and-wholesome-wellness-human-design-somatic-healing-for-high-achieving-women-and-entrepreneurs-192797/episodes/the-people-pleasing-trap-how-high-achieving-women-can-stop-over-giving-and-reclaim-their-energy Duration seconds: 2320 ## Resource Send us Fan Mail You've been taught that selflessness is a virtue. That putting yourself last makes you a good woman, a good mom, a good partner. But what if that conditioning is exactly what's keeping you stuck, burned out, and disconnected from yourself? In this episode, Hope sits down with Valerie Jones, author, podcast host, and founder of The Selfish Woman movement, to break down why reclaiming yourself isn't selfish at all. It's the foundation for everything. This one will challenge you... ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/hopeful-and-wholesome-wellness-human-design-somatic-healing-for-high-achieving-women-and-entrepreneurs-192797/episodes/the-people-pleasing-trap-how-high-achieving-women-can-stop-over-giving-and-reclaim-their-energy/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/hopeful-and-wholesome-wellness-human-design-somatic-healing-for-high-achieving-women-and-entrepreneurs-192797/the-people-pleasing-trap-how-high-achieving-women-can-stop-over-giving-and-reclaim-their-energy.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.