# "I've Just Never Been Good At That" (And Other Lies We Keep Believing)

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Podcast: [High Heels to Happy Feels](https://stenobird.com/podcast/high-heels-to-happy-feels-7007187)
Published: 2026-09-06T04:42:00+00:00
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## Resource

Ever catch yourself saying "I've just never been good at that," and wonder when you last actually checked if it's still true? This week we are recording live from UAC (United Astrology Conference) in Chicago, and it sends us down a bigger question: how much of who we think we are is just an old file we've never updated? We get into why evidence about ourselves piles up as we age, how family and old friends can pull us back into outdated versions of ourselves, and where the line is between a real, settled preference and a story we're repeating on autopilot. In this episode, we talk about: ✨ Why the "evidence" we have about ourselves can go decades without an update ✨ How other people's old expectations pull us back into who we used to be ✨ The difference between knowing yourself and being finished knowing yourself ✨ This week's astrology: a New Moon in Virgo, Uranus stationing retrograde, and what a "would you open the folder" thought experiment reveals about wanting certainty ✨ A Soul Pillars reflection on the parts of yourself you haven't met yet 🌙 OUR OFFERINGS Soul Pillars (FREE) — Mind, Heart, Body, Spirit. Start here to come back to who you are underneath the noise. 👉 https://www.immersivespirit.com/soulpillars The Intuitive Operating System™ (IOS) — Learn to recognize your own intuitive signal, regulate your sensitivity, and stop confusing anxiety for intuition. Only offered just a few times a year, the waitlist is open for our next offering coming late October! 👉 https://intuitiveoperatingsystem.com/ Town Square Online Membership Community. FREE for 30 days! 👉 https://www.immersive-spirit.com 1:1 Readings & Sessions — Intuitive psychic readings, astrological readings, Reiki healing, and intuition and spiritual coaching. 👉 https://www.immersivespirit.com/our-…

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