# 16 Siders Kids: Why Your Mind Refuses To See Families Like This

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Podcast: [Hidden Killers With Tony Brueski | True Crime News & Commentary](https://stenobird.com/podcast/hidden-killers-with-tony-brueski-true-crime-news-commentary-5840426)
Published: 2026-07-16T20:00:00+00:00
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A man lived three doors from twenty people for six years and says he never saw a single child. He wasn't lying to reporters. That's what makes it worse. Psychotherapist Shavaun Scott explains how a human mind can genuinely fail to register what's in front of it — when registering it would demand a phone call, a confrontation, an accusation against a neighbor in a town of seven hundred people. This conversation is about the psychology of everyone who orbited the Siders house. The store employees who catalogued years of warning signs and reported none of them. The delivery customers who met Gary Jr. daily and read nothing in him. The town that prides itself on everybody knowing everybody — which may be exactly why nobody said anything, because in a town that small, the person who makes the call is never anonymous. Scott then pushes into the claim at the heart of this episode: cases like this are not rare. Getting found is rare. The Siders family entered the statistics through a fluke warrant, which means the statistics are a floor, not a count. She closes with what noticing actually requires of a person — and why the gap between "I would have called" and actually calling is where children like these sixteen disappear. Join Our SubStack For AD-FREE ADVANCE EPISODES & EXTRAS!: https://hiddenkillers.substack.com/ Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8-vxmbhTxxG10sO1izODJg?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspod X Twitter https://x.com/TrueCrimePod This publication contains commentary and opinion based on publicly available information. All individuals are presu…

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