# Instigating Change: When You Want Others to Transform

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Podcast: [Healing Relationships From the Inside Out](https://stenobird.com/podcast/healing-relationships-from-the-inside-out-1151747)
Published: 2025-05-23T16:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://drdarhawks.com/instigating-change-when-you-want-others-to-transform/
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## Resource

Have you ever wished you could change your partner, family member, friend, or colleague? Dr. Dar Hawks challenges the common belief that "you can't change other people" by revealing a powerful truth: when you transform yourself, those around you often change in response. Forget about direct confrontation, ultimatums, or demands - these approaches typically trigger resistance and defensiveness. Instead, Dr. Dar introduces an indirect, influential method that works through what she calls "rela...

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