# Why You Struggle to Receive (Even Though You Want Love)

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Podcast: [Healing Anxious Attachment](https://stenobird.com/podcast/healing-anxious-attachment-6672038)
Published: 2025-06-26T13:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://www.becomingsecurecommunity.com/
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## Resource

In this episode, I’m talking about why receiving often feels uncomfortable — especially for women with anxious attachment — and how this survival pattern shows up in your body and your relationships. We’ll explore: Why high-functioning women resist support The somatic signs you’re in survival mode How childhood patterns shaped your ability to receive What it really takes to let love land And if you’re ready to shift this not just in your mind, but in your body — join me for my upcoming live workshop: Held – Letting Love In. In the Becoming Secure Membership. In the workshop we go deep into the somatic healing needed to turn off survival mode and turn on your capacity to receive. Mentioned in this episode: 🧡 Workshop Sun, July 5th 11am ET inside Becoming Her ✨ 👉🏼 Join me for Secure & Self-Assured https://www.skool.com/healing-anxious-attachment/about Embodied confidence that isn’t dependent on outcomes, praise, or proving. Expect practices that strengthen inner stability, self-trust, and the ability to express who you are without over-explaining or over-functioning.

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