# Having Secure Standards: The End of ‘Almost Right’ Love

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Podcast: [Healing Anxious Attachment](https://stenobird.com/podcast/healing-anxious-attachment-6672038)
Published: 2025-10-13T11:15:00+00:00
Episode link: https://www.becomingsecurecommunity.com/
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## Resource

If you’ve ever held out for someone’s potential because you could feel how good they are deep down… this episode is for you. We’ll talk about: Why emotionally unavailable men can still feel magnetic How to stop mistaking intensity for love Moving from shrinking into high standards for love What it really means to feel safe being chosen Join the Becoming Secure women's membership to learn how to use somatic practices and inner work to heal anxious attachment 🧡 Over 30 guided somatic practices 2 live calls a month Individualized coaching from Johanna learn more here 💐 Mentioned in this episode: 🧡 Workshop Sun, July 5th 11am ET inside Becoming Her ✨ 👉🏼 Join me for Secure & Self-Assured https://www.skool.com/healing-anxious-attachment/about Embodied confidence that isn’t dependent on outcomes, praise, or proving. Expect practices that strengthen inner stability, self-trust, and the ability to express who you are without over-explaining or over-functioning.

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