# Breaking the Toxic Pattern of Productivity as Self Worth Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/healing-anxious-attachment-6672038/breaking-the-toxic-pattern-of-productivity-as-self-worth Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/healing-anxious-attachment-6672038/breaking-the-toxic-pattern-of-productivity-as-self-worth.md Podcast: [Healing Anxious Attachment](https://stenobird.com/podcast/healing-anxious-attachment-6672038) Published: 2025-10-23T11:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.becomingsecurecommunity.com/ Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/74b975bc-d458-4ade-b62e-71fb3474cc08.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/healing-anxious-attachment-6672038/episodes/breaking-the-toxic-pattern-of-productivity-as-self-worth Duration seconds: 1934 ## Resource In this episode, we dive into the toxic cycle of tying our value to how much we achieve or produce and why it pushes away healthy love. We talk about what happens when our reality revolves around being busy, rather than being fulfilled. And how women suffer when pleasure, joy, and creativity fall to the bottom of the list. This conversation also explores how perfectionism and the need for control can pull us further from ourselves. Enjoy! Go Deeper: Join the Becoming Secure women's membership to learn how to use somatic practices and inner work to heal anxious attachment 🧑 Over 30 guided somatic practices 2 live calls a month Individualized coaching from Johanna learn more here πŸ’ Mentioned in this episode: 🧑 Workshop Sun, July 5th 11am ET inside Becoming Her ✨ πŸ‘‰πŸΌ Join me for Secure & Self-Assured https://www.skool.com/healing-anxious-attachment/about Embodied confidence that isn’t dependent on outcomes, praise, or proving. Expect practices that strengthen inner stability, self-trust, and the ability to express who you are without over-explaining or over-functioning. ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/healing-anxious-attachment-6672038/episodes/breaking-the-toxic-pattern-of-productivity-as-self-worth/transcription-requests` β€” Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/healing-anxious-attachment-6672038/breaking-the-toxic-pattern-of-productivity-as-self-worth.md` β€” Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.