# ClosetEd Interview Series: Adam Darrow, author of Seek the Risk

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Podcast: [Happy Slut](https://stenobird.com/podcast/happy-slut-7449420)
Published: 2026-01-28T10:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://00af448d-cb72-4d4b-ab90.captivate.fm
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## Resource

Okay, pinecones, I am getting real personal with you in this bonus interview! Adam Darrow is a man of many extreme talents - house-building, extreme sports including free solo rock-climbing, tankless scuba diving, and BASE jumping, and you know, running tech companies, whatevs, no big deal - and he recently published a memoir about his foray into extreme non-monogamy with a woman named Jane, who told him up front that she has LOTS of casual sex and never plans to change that for any relationship. The book is called Seek the Risk , and in it, Darrow provides the most clear-eyed perspective I've ever encountered on the struggles that men face in nonmonogamous relationships with sexually voracious women...women like, oh y'know, ME. We have a fascinating conversation in which I reveal some intimate details from my own life, and Adam dispenses wisdom that is invaluable to anyone who's curious about the pleasures and pitfalls of nonmonogamy. Learn more about Adam and buy the book: www.seektherisk.net If you are a Spotify subscriber, the audiobook of Seek the Risk is free with your subscription! xoxo, Samia Mentioned in this episode: BetterSleep FREE Trial Get 30 days of BetterSleep for free with link www.bettersleep.com/closeted. Get 30 days of BetterSleep FREE with link www.bettersleep.com/closeted Get 15% off Kenneth Play's Beyond Satisfied Pro course at www.kennethplay.com/closeted

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