# #130. How to Increase Your Love-Ability Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/happy-in-the-middle-a-podcast-for-christian-midlife-women-6710636/130-how-to-increase-your-love-ability Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/happy-in-the-middle-a-podcast-for-christian-midlife-women-6710636/130-how-to-increase-your-love-ability.md Podcast: [Happy in The Middle, a Podcast for Christian Midlife Women](https://stenobird.com/podcast/happy-in-the-middle-a-podcast-for-christian-midlife-women-6710636) Published: 2026-05-28T06:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.jane-copier.com/podcasts/happy-in-the-middle-a-podcast-for-christian-midlife-women/episodes/2149209688 Audio file: https://app.kajabi.com/podcasts/medias/2149209688.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/happy-in-the-middle-a-podcast-for-christian-midlife-women-6710636/episodes/130-how-to-increase-your-love-ability Duration seconds: 1287 ## Resource Love is something we all crave, -but what if we’ve been thinking about it backwards? In this episode, we explore one of the most life-changing emotional skills you can develop: your love-ability, -your ability to create, feel, and give love on purpose. Many of us have been conditioned to believe love comes from other people, -their approval, affection, appreciation, or behavior. But that mindset leaves us emotionally dependent and waiting for others to.  Today  we unpack a more empowering truth: love is not something you wait for, it’s something you practice. You’ll learn: Why love is a skill, not just an emotion How judgment, pride, and self-protection block love Why withholding love hurts you more than anyone else How boundaries and love can coexist beautifully Practical ways to increase compassion and emotional connection How gratitude and receiving love deepen relationships Why loving on purpose creates greater peace, resilience, and joy Whether you’re struggling in marriage, parenting, family relationships, or simply wanting to feel more connected and alive, this episode will help you open your heart and build greater emotional freedom. This is the final episode before summer break, and it’s one close to my heart. Thanks for listening and sharing with a friend! ❤️ Are you ready to make your marriage amazing?  I’d be honored to walk with you. Book a free coaching call here: https://JaneCopierCoaching.as.me/Consultation 🤗 Thanks for listening, please like, subscribe, and leave me a 5 star review, so that I can continue to provide helpful relationship content for all of us. Book a Free Consultation with Jane: https://JaneCopierCoaching.as.me/Consultation   Welcome to Happy in the Middle, with your host, Certified Life Coach, Jane Copier.  Hap… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/happy-in-the-middle-a-podcast-for-christian-midlife-women-6710636/episodes/130-how-to-increase-your-love-ability/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/happy-in-the-middle-a-podcast-for-christian-midlife-women-6710636/130-how-to-increase-your-love-ability.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.