# #113. Who Are You in Your Relationship, and do You Like it? Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/happy-in-the-middle-a-podcast-for-christian-midlife-women-6710636/113-who-are-you-in-your-relationship-and-do-you-like-it Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/happy-in-the-middle-a-podcast-for-christian-midlife-women-6710636/113-who-are-you-in-your-relationship-and-do-you-like-it.md Podcast: [Happy in The Middle, a Podcast for Christian Midlife Women](https://stenobird.com/podcast/happy-in-the-middle-a-podcast-for-christian-midlife-women-6710636) Published: 2026-01-22T07:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.jane-copier.com/podcasts/happy-in-the-middle-a-podcast-for-christian-midlife-women/episodes/2149155339 Audio file: https://app.kajabi.com/podcasts/medias/2149155339.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/happy-in-the-middle-a-podcast-for-christian-midlife-women-6710636/episodes/113-who-are-you-in-your-relationship-and-do-you-like-it Duration seconds: 1145 ## Resource Who you are in your relationship matters more than you may realize. In this episode, we explore the concept of your relationship identity , -how you see yourself, who you believe you are, and the role you unconsciously play in your marriage and other close relationships.  Many women are still operating from identities formed decades ago, which are often rooted in survival, people-pleasing, resentment, or victimhood…without ever realizing it. If you’ve ever thought: “Something feels off, but I can’t name it,” “I don’t really like who I am in this relationship,” or “I don’t want to keep repeating this same dynamic,” this episode is for you. We’ll talk about: How early marriage and family roles shape your identity Common relationship identities women adopt (and why they make sense) Why staying loyal to an outdated identity creates resentment and disconnection How identity, -not effort, is what actually changes relationships How to tap into your Future Self to consciously create a new, healthier relationship identity Powerful “I am” statements to help you shift who you’re being from the inside out This is sacred, grown-up relationship work that can be a game changer for you.  You don’t need your partner to change first. Transformation begins when you do.   🤗 Thanks for listening, please leave a rating and review, and share with a friend! Take a Free Enneagram Test:   https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test? Book a Free Consultation with Jane: https://JaneCopierCoaching.as.me/Consultation   Welcome to Happy in the Middle, with your host, Certified Life Coach, Jane Copier.  Happy in the Middle is a podcast for Christian women who want to make the second half of life, the BEST half. This podcast is all about helping women reignite… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/happy-in-the-middle-a-podcast-for-christian-midlife-women-6710636/episodes/113-who-are-you-in-your-relationship-and-do-you-like-it/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/happy-in-the-middle-a-podcast-for-christian-midlife-women-6710636/113-who-are-you-in-your-relationship-and-do-you-like-it.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.