# Overcoming Caregiving and Relationship Problems with Barry Jacobs Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/happy-healthy-caregiver-967527/overcoming-caregiving-and-relationship-problems-with-barry-jacobs Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/happy-healthy-caregiver-967527/overcoming-caregiving-and-relationship-problems-with-barry-jacobs.md Podcast: [Happy Healthy Caregiver](https://stenobird.com/podcast/happy-healthy-caregiver-967527) Published: 2025-09-10T10:00:30+00:00 Episode link: https://happyhealthycaregiver.com/podcast/barry-jacobs/ Audio file: https://downloads.pod.co/4fbc1c47-9c88-4618-8344-850894d6f935/bda9572c-1666-4237-b16f-4c28f001f3c4.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/happy-healthy-caregiver-967527/episodes/overcoming-caregiving-and-relationship-problems-with-barry-jacobs Duration seconds: 3531 ## Resource Our guest is Barry J. Jacobs — he’s a clinical psychologist and author based just outside of Philly who has a real heart for supporting family caregivers. And that passion is personal. Barry’s caregiving journey started young — when he was just 14, his dad was diagnosed with brain cancer and sadly passed away the following year. That experience shaped the direction of his life and career. Later, from 2010 to 2017, Barry stepped into the caregiving role again — this time for his stepfather, who had Alzheimer’s, and his mom, who was living with vascular dementia. He truly understands the emotional rollercoaster that comes with caregiving and has spent his career helping others navigate it with more support and less guilt. In this episode, we discuss two of his books, co-written with his wife, one on love and relationships after 50, and one focused on addressing common family caregiving questions. We delve deeper into the topics of guilt, family dynamics, and self-care. Barry has much personal and professional wisdom to share, especially when it comes to self-kindness, using more honey and less vinegar, balancing ‘me time’ and ‘we time,’ and spreading ‘You Got This’ confidence throughout the caregiving community. Show notes with product and resource links: https://bit.ly/HHCPod213 Receive the podcast in your email here: http://bit.ly/2G4qvBv Order a copy of Elizabeth's book Just for You: a Daily Self Care Journal: http://bit.ly/HHCjournal For podcast sponsorship opportunities contact Elizabeth: https://happyhealthycaregiver.com/contact-us/ The Happy Healthy Caregiver podcast is part of the Whole Care Network. Rate and Review the podcast: https://bit.ly/HHCPODREVIEW ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/happy-healthy-caregiver-967527/episodes/overcoming-caregiving-and-relationship-problems-with-barry-jacobs/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/happy-healthy-caregiver-967527/overcoming-caregiving-and-relationship-problems-with-barry-jacobs.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.