# More Happier: What Tattoo Would You Get? Plus How to Give Yourself Permission to Play Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/happier-with-gretchen-rubin-392423/more-happier-what-tattoo-would-you-get-plus-how-to-give-yourself-permission-to-play Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/happier-with-gretchen-rubin-392423/more-happier-what-tattoo-would-you-get-plus-how-to-give-yourself-permission-to-play.md Podcast: [Happier with Gretchen Rubin](https://stenobird.com/podcast/happier-with-gretchen-rubin-392423) Published: 2026-08-22T07:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://gretchenrubin.com/podcast/more-happier-16-tips-for-calmer-parenting-and-the-tattoos-wed-pick-if-we-had-to-choose Audio file: https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME4434094216.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/happier-with-gretchen-rubin-392423/episodes/more-happier-what-tattoo-would-you-get-plus-how-to-give-yourself-permission-to-play Duration seconds: 1587 ## Resource When relaxing feels like wasting time, you can trick yourself into enjoying it anyway. Plus, 16 things to try for happier, calmer parenting.  Episode highlights: Something Making Us Happier: Gretchen shares Chuck's tip for an ultra-quiet desk fan, plus more things we didn’t know [00:00] I’ve Been Meaning to Ask You: We don’t personally like tattoos, but what would we get?[00:00] Spotlight on a Tool—Gretchen's article on 16 things to try instead of yelling, just in time for back-to-school [00:00] I’ve Been Meaning to Tell You: When rest feels like wasting time, you might have to trick yourself [00:00] Mentioned in this episode: Rowenta Ultra Quiet Desk Fan: https://amzn.to/3TEZgEZ "How to Be a Happier, Calmer Parent: 16 Things to Try Instead of Yelling": happiercast.com/parenting Burning the Days by James Salter Connect with us: Email: podcast@gretchenrubin.com Website: gretchenrubin.com Instagram: @gretchenrubin | @lizcraft Learn more about Gretchen's Four Tendencies personality framework and take the free quiz. Enjoyed this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or rate us on Spotify — it helps other listeners find the show! Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/happier-with-gretchen-rubin-392423/episodes/more-happier-what-tattoo-would-you-get-plus-how-to-give-yourself-permission-to-play/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/happier-with-gretchen-rubin-392423/more-happier-what-tattoo-would-you-get-plus-how-to-give-yourself-permission-to-play.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.