# Ep. 594: Try Becoming a Fan, Plus Tips for Dealing with Travel Bores Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/happier-with-gretchen-rubin-392423/ep-594-try-becoming-a-fan-plus-tips-for-dealing-with-travel-bores Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/happier-with-gretchen-rubin-392423/ep-594-try-becoming-a-fan-plus-tips-for-dealing-with-travel-bores.md Podcast: [Happier with Gretchen Rubin](https://stenobird.com/podcast/happier-with-gretchen-rubin-392423) Published: 2026-07-08T07:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://gretchenrubin.com/podcast/594-try-becoming-a-fan-plus-tips-for-dealing-with-travel-bores Audio file: https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME6011562379.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/happier-with-gretchen-rubin-392423/episodes/ep-594-try-becoming-a-fan-plus-tips-for-dealing-with-travel-bores Duration seconds: 2161 ## Resource Becoming a fan—of sports or anything—can improve your happiness. We share listener tips for dealing with people who share every boring detail of their latest trip. Episode highlights: Try This at Home: Become a fan— Research shows that fandom reduces loneliness and gives your life more structure, connection, and ritual [04:37] Happiness Hack: Cross off the common denominator—When you're anxious about a decision, ask yourself: does this worry apply to every option? [14:45] Listener strategies for dealing with travel bores: How to redirect the conversation and ask targeted questions that make travel stories actually interesting. [17:41] Demerits & Gold Stars: Elizabeth's demerit: return timing regret; Gretchen's gold star: a perfect souvenir find. [25:03] Mentioned in this Episode: "Why Watching Sports Makes People Happy" — Time Magazine Rammer Jammer Yellow Hammer by Warren St. John (Amazon, Bookshop) There's Only One Sin in Hollywood by Rasheed Newson (Amazon, Bookshop) The Scorpio Races by Maggie Stiefvater (Amazon, Bookshop) Summer Bingo card + Design Your Summer tool — Happier App Connect with Us: Email: podcast@gretchenrubin.com Website: gretchenrubin.com Instagram: @gretchenrubin | @lizcraft Take the free Four Tendencies quiz Enjoyed this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or rate us on Spotify — it helps other listeners find the show! Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/happier-with-gretchen-rubin-392423/episodes/ep-594-try-becoming-a-fan-plus-tips-for-dealing-with-travel-bores/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/happier-with-gretchen-rubin-392423/ep-594-try-becoming-a-fan-plus-tips-for-dealing-with-travel-bores.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.