# Ep 56: Motel 6 or Four Seasons? 🏨💬 Playing Separately, Setting Boundaries & Getting Real About Jealousy

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Podcast: [Hacking Love: Deepening Commitment Through Open Relationships](https://stenobird.com/podcast/hacking-love-deepening-commitment-through-open-relationships-7024482)
Published: 2026-02-10T02:10:41+00:00
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Duration seconds: 3100

## Resource

This one’s all about the little details that really matter—like where your partner has sex with someone else. 😂 In this episode, we dive deep into the surprisingly emotional conversation about location preferences for separate play (yes, we’re debating Motel 6 vs. a romantic yurt vs our own homes), and how these seemingly small choices can stir up big feelings around fairness, privacy, control, and intimacy. We also give a sweet update on our Hacking Nicaragua retreat crew—and how the three amazing couples are thriving months later with more connection, better sex, and healthier habits. And finally, we read through all your recent reviews—including the ones that made us laugh, cringe, and cheer—and share our honest (and sometimes sassy) reactions. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or just figuring out your own rules, this one is full of real talk, inside jokes, and the kind of conversations that keep a relationship evolving. ❤️🔥 We want to hear from you and we ALWAYS write back! annaaiden@gmx.com Hacking Love Facebook Group : https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1YFEEPwYeB/ Instagram @HackingLove_Podcast

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