# Ep. 40: When “Open” Isn’t Honest—Red Flags 🚩; A Crazy Sex Party 🎉; Unspeakable Things 💬🙉

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Podcast: [Hacking Love: Deepening Commitment Through Open Relationships](https://stenobird.com/podcast/hacking-love-deepening-commitment-through-open-relationships-7024482)
Published: 2025-06-19T01:30:18+00:00
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Duration seconds: 2875

## Resource

Life’s been busy—family, work, and all the chaos that comes with it—but we’re here to dive deep into the real, messy, and beautiful side of love and relationships. This week, we unpack a listener’s email that had us both raising eyebrows: What happens when “ethical non-monogamy” starts to look less than honest? We talk red flags 🚩, jealousy, and why true partnership means being on the same team—not just doing your own thing just because you "can". We get real about trust, boundaries, and what to do when your partner’s desire for solo exploits start to feel like you’re being left behind. We also spill the tea on what was just about the wildest party we’ve ever attended and share what it’s like to be in a room where really anything goes. Plus, we dig into a surprising new study about infidelity and why so many people don’t regret cheating, even in happy relationships. 🤯 Also—political talk in the lifestyle? 😱 🙉 Tune in for real talk, wild stories, and a reminder that love is always a work in progress. Email us at AnnaAiden@gmx.com Hacking Live Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1YFEEPwYeB/ IG: @HackingLove_Podcast https://www.instagram.com/hackinglove_podcast/

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