# the life you want is on the other side of conflict [ft. Monika Alanna]

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Podcast: [GRACEPILLED with Hanna Williams](https://stenobird.com/podcast/gracepilled-with-hanna-williams-7267150)
Published: 2026-06-02T13:00:00+00:00
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## Resource

Monika and I sit down for a deeply honest conversation about conflict, intimacy, nervous system regulation, heartbreak, truth-telling, and the strange ways relationships force us to confront ourselves. We explore why so many people avoid difficult conversations, how conflict can become a pathway to deeper connection, and why the life we want may exist on the other side of the conversations we are most afraid to have.

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