# 655 \\ When Accountability Becomes an Attack | Recognizing DARVO in Leadership, Ministry, and Relationships

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Podcast: [God’s Vibes®](https://stenobird.com/podcast/god-s-vibes-472593)
Published: 2026-06-05T21:05:22+00:00
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## Resource

Have you ever confronted someone about their behavior only to find yourself defending your character instead? You raise a concern. They deny it. They attack you. Then suddenly they're the victim and you're the problem. This manipulation strategy is known as DARVO: Deny. Attack. Reverse Victim and Offender. In this episode, we're discussing why good-hearted leaders are especially vulnerable to this tactic and how discernment can help you recognize manipulation before it damages your confidence, relationships, or leadership. If you want to go deeper: → Join us in Courage Co.-- Where you build the internal capacity to live, lead, and move forward with God.www.courageco.org Join us for the Free Courage Co. Prophetic Summit for 5-days of activating, prophecy and spiritual strengthening: https://julianapage.info/5daypropheticsummit If you’re navigating a major transition, leadership pressure, emotional exhaustion, or a season that requires clarity and strategic alignment, you can work directly with Juliana through private intensives and mentorship sessions. Schedule here:Work With Juliana

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