# 626 \\ When Love Feels Confusing | You’re Not Bad at Love—You Were Taught It Wrong

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Podcast: [God’s Vibes®](https://stenobird.com/podcast/god-s-vibes-472593)
Published: 2026-01-16T17:33:37+00:00
Episode link: https://julianapage.podbean.com/e/626-when-love-feels-confusing-you-re-not-bad-at-love%e2%80%94you-were-taught-it-wrong/
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Duration seconds: 2440

## Resource

Have you ever felt like love costs you your voice, your energy, or your peace—and wondered if that’s just “the Christian way”? In this teaching, we address why so many believers feel confused about love and how that confusion leads to self-abandonment, burnout, people-pleasing, and misplaced loyalty. We’ll unpack the difference between dying to self and letting your light shine, how to receive God’s love instead of just knowing about it, and how to end self-sabotage by stewarding love with wisdom and discernment. This isn’t about becoming selfish. It’s about becoming aligned. ✨ Ready to go deeper? If this message resonated, I want to invite you into two next steps: 🔥 Capacity Workshop — January 22 at 7 PM CT This live workshop is for those who feel stretched, tired, or stuck between calling and burnout. We’ll explore how to live from God’s empowerment—not pressure—and how to increase capacity without self-betrayal. 👉 Register now and join us live on 1/22 at 7pm CT www.courageco.org 💛 Join Courage Co. Courage Co. is a faith-centered community for those learning to walk in discernment, identity, and Spirit-led maturity. If you’re ready to grow in healthy love, boundaries, and clarity—this is your next step. www.courageco.org ✨ Become a God’s Vibes InsiderIf this teaching spoke to you, stay connected. As a God’s Vibes Insider, you’ll receive weekly encouragement, teachings, and first access to events, workshops, and community invitations—delivered straight to your inbox. 👉 Become a God’s Vibes Insider here:https://bit.ly/VibesInsider

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