# Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715.md RSS feed: https://feeds.simplecast.com/cM8c4JkY Official site: http://www.gettingdivorced.org Author: Corey Shapiro Episodes: 60 ## Resource Every time you cooperate, they escalate. Every time you're fair, they take more. This is a podcast about high-conflict divorce. For the spouse who keeps trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't negotiating. A system for getting through, in three phases. Get Clear. Get Going. Get Your Life Back. I'm Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. Watched my mother make the biggest decision of her life at her worst moment, with nobody helping her slow down. The companion to my book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind. Seasons follow a curriculum. One full arc per year. Listen in order if you're early in the process. Jump in anywhere if you're already mid-divorce. New episodes Thursdays during the season. For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction. ## Machine-readable JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715 Markdown: https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715.md ## Episodes - [When Being Reasonable Stops Working](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/when-being-reasonable-stops-working) — 2026-06-11T04:00:00+00:00 - [Stop Telling. Start Asking.](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/stop-telling-start-asking) — 2026-06-04T04:00:00+00:00 - [What to Say Instead of "That's Ridiculous"](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/what-to-say-instead-of-that-s-ridiculous) — 2026-05-28T04:00:00+00:00 - [Build Momentum Without Caving](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/build-momentum-without-caving) — 2026-05-21T04:00:00+00:00 - [What to Say Instead of "Where Have You Been?"](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/what-to-say-instead-of-where-have-you-been) — 2026-05-14T04:00:00+00:00 - [Your Reaction Is Right. Your Response Cannot Be.](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/your-reaction-is-right-your-response-cannot-be) — 2026-05-07T04:00:00+00:00 - [Your Feelings Don't Matter in Divorce Court. Your Actions Do.](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/your-feelings-don-t-matter-in-divorce-court-your-actions-do) — 2026-04-30T04:00:00+00:00 - [The Secret Weapon That Makes You More Persuasive in Your Divorce](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/the-secret-weapon-that-makes-you-more-persuasive-in-your-divorce) — 2026-04-23T04:00:00+00:00 - [You Think Winning Changes Everything. You're Wrong.](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/you-think-winning-changes-everything-you-re-wrong) — 2026-04-16T04:00:00+00:00 - [Divorce Settlement Proposal: This Can't Be Real](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/divorce-settlement-proposal-this-can-t-be-real) — 2026-04-09T04:00:00+00:00 - [Why Your First Instinct Is Ruining Your Divorce](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/why-your-first-instinct-is-ruining-your-divorce) — 2026-04-02T04:00:00+00:00 - [The Checkpoint You Can't Skip](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/the-checkpoint-you-can-t-skip) — 2026-03-26T04:00:00+00:00 - [The Divorce Trap Parents Fall Into: Harming Kids Mentally](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/the-divorce-trap-parents-fall-into-harming-kids-mentally) — 2026-03-19T04:00:00+00:00 - [Triggered by His Text? Here's What to Do](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/triggered-by-his-text-here-s-what-to-do) — 2026-03-12T04:00:00+00:00 - [Your Spouse Hiding Documents? This is How It Backfires](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/your-spouse-hiding-documents-this-is-how-it-backfires) — 2026-03-05T05:00:00+00:00 - [Your Battery Is Low. Not Broken.](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/your-battery-is-low-not-broken) — 2026-02-26T05:00:00+00:00 - [You Raised Them Alone. Now the Court Wants 50/50.](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/you-raised-them-alone-now-the-court-wants-50-50) — 2026-02-19T05:00:00+00:00 - [That Text Hits Different When You're Already Stressed About the Weekend](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/that-text-hits-different-when-you-re-already-stressed-about-the-weekend) — 2026-02-12T05:00:00+00:00 - [That Angry Text Message Hit Too Close to Home](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/that-angry-text-message-hit-too-close-to-home) — 2026-02-05T05:00:00+00:00 - [You Can't Solve a Problem With Someone Who Needs a Problem](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/you-can-t-solve-a-problem-with-someone-who-needs-a-problem) — 2026-01-29T05:00:00+00:00 - [The Parent Who Reacts Least Wins Most](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/the-parent-who-reacts-least-wins-most) — 2026-01-22T05:00:00+00:00 - [Your Divorce Just Got More Expensive Here's Why](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/your-divorce-just-got-more-expensive-here-s-why) — 2026-01-15T05:00:00+00:00 - [Your Divorce Lawyer Can't Help You If You Don't Understand This](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/your-divorce-lawyer-can-t-help-you-if-you-don-t-understand-this) — 2026-01-08T05:00:00+00:00 - [Start Here 2026: Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/start-here-2026-getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind) — 2026-01-01T05:00:00+00:00 - [The Emotionally Savvy Divorce with Katherine Miller](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/the-emotionally-savvy-divorce-with-katherine-miller) — 2025-12-25T05:00:00+00:00 - [Divorce Isn't Just an Ending. It's a Reckoning](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/divorce-isn-t-just-an-ending-it-s-a-reckoning) — 2025-12-18T05:00:00+00:00 - [You Don't Need to Earn Rest](https://stenobird.com/podcast/getting-divorced-without-losing-your-mind-7032715/you-don-t-need-to-earn-rest) — 2025-12-11T05:00:00+00:00 ## Actions Episode pages expose an explicit `request_transcript` action. A page view does not automatically enqueue transcription.