# 129- From Yelling to Connection: Practical Steps for Strong-Willed Kids with Melissa Schulz

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Published: 2026-05-12T08:19:00+00:00
Episode link: https://frontparkingspot.podbean.com/e/from-yelling-to-connection-practical-steps-for-strong-willed-kids/
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Duration seconds: 1847

## Resource

In this episode of the Front Parking Spot podcast host Jennifer Bosma welcomes Melissa Schulz, a parenting coach and behavior analyst recognized as the Best Parenting Coach in the United States (Evergreen Awards, 2025). Melissa—who is also a mom of three and has two neurodiverse children—shares her 20+ years of professional experience and personal insight helping families of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids turn daily struggles into calmer, more connected moments. Topics covered include common struggles parents face (repeating instructions, yelling cycles, not getting ready on time, screen battles), how to get children to listen, and how to move from symptom-focused reactions to discovering root causes. Melissa explains why kids tune out, how an accidental cycle of repetition-and-yell forms, and practical ways to break it: say the instruction once, get face-to-face, use a clear three-times-and-follow-through rule, and tie consequences to privileges like screen time. The episode also addresses intense moments like meltdowns—especially in the car—and concrete calming strategies: using playlists and noise-cancelling headphones, playful car games or podcasts, intentional pull-overs to reset, modeled breathing and quick prayers, and short breaks or partner switches when a parent needs to step away. Melissa emphasizes that regulation is a skill to teach, not a character flaw to punish. Jennifer and Melissa discuss how to uncover the underlying causes of misbehavior rather than simply reacting: adopt a detective mindset, track patterns by writing behaviors down for a week, ask curious questions (when calm), and collaborate with older children to co-create plans. They also highlight that emotional awareness and verbal ability develop on different timeline…

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