# The Art of Listening: How to Break Free from Chronic Conflict Loops | Episode 335 Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/the-art-of-listening-how-to-break-free-from-chronic-conflict-loops-episode-335 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/the-art-of-listening-how-to-break-free-from-chronic-conflict-loops-episode-335.md Podcast: [Fragmented to Whole: Life Lessons from 12 Step Recovery](https://stenobird.com/podcast/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478) Published: 2026-01-19T15:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1868717/episodes/18533513-the-art-of-listening-how-to-break-free-from-chronic-conflict-loops-episode-335.mp3 Audio file: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1868717/episodes/18533513-the-art-of-listening-how-to-break-free-from-chronic-conflict-loops-episode-335.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/episodes/the-art-of-listening-how-to-break-free-from-chronic-conflict-loops-episode-335 Duration seconds: 748 ## Resource Send us Fan Mail In this week’s episode of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I’m talking about why so many couples get stuck having the same arguments over and over, and how real listening isn’t about communication techniques, but about the assumptions we bring into the conversation before we ever open our mouths. This episode explores how internal safety, meaning-making, and unmanaged expectations quietly fuel chronic conflict loops in long-term relationships. Some of the talking points I go ... ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/episodes/the-art-of-listening-how-to-break-free-from-chronic-conflict-loops-episode-335/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/the-art-of-listening-how-to-break-free-from-chronic-conflict-loops-episode-335.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.