# How to Stop Over-Giving When Friendships Feel One-Sided | Episode 354 Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/how-to-stop-over-giving-when-friendships-feel-one-sided-episode-354 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/how-to-stop-over-giving-when-friendships-feel-one-sided-episode-354.md Podcast: [Fragmented to Whole: Life Lessons from 12 Step Recovery](https://stenobird.com/podcast/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478) Published: 2026-06-01T11:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1868717/episodes/19256410-how-to-stop-over-giving-when-friendships-feel-one-sided-episode-354.mp3 Audio file: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1868717/episodes/19256410-how-to-stop-over-giving-when-friendships-feel-one-sided-episode-354.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/episodes/how-to-stop-over-giving-when-friendships-feel-one-sided-episode-354 Duration seconds: 863 ## Resource Send us Fan Mail In this week’s episode 354 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I’m talking about social boundaries, over-functioning in friendships, and what happens when relationships quietly become dependent on your emotional labor, effort, and self-abandonment. When I first entered recovery, I thought my relationship struggles were mostly about romantic relationships. What I eventually realized was that many of the same codependent patterns were showing up in my friendships and colleague ... ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/episodes/how-to-stop-over-giving-when-friendships-feel-one-sided-episode-354/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/how-to-stop-over-giving-when-friendships-feel-one-sided-episode-354.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.