# How to Change Your Love Life by Becoming Emotionally Available | Episode 334 Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/how-to-change-your-love-life-by-becoming-emotionally-available-episode-334 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/how-to-change-your-love-life-by-becoming-emotionally-available-episode-334.md Podcast: [Fragmented to Whole: Life Lessons from 12 Step Recovery](https://stenobird.com/podcast/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478) Published: 2026-01-12T22:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1868717/episodes/18497380-how-to-change-your-love-life-by-becoming-emotionally-available-episode-334.mp3 Audio file: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1868717/episodes/18497380-how-to-change-your-love-life-by-becoming-emotionally-available-episode-334.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/episodes/how-to-change-your-love-life-by-becoming-emotionally-available-episode-334 Duration seconds: 652 ## Resource Send us Fan Mail In this week’s episode of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I’m sharing a powerful realization from my own recovery journey: the pattern of emotionally unavailable partners wasn’t just about who I was choosing, it was about my own emotional availability. For years, I believed I was unlucky in love. Through ACA recovery and a deep relationship inventory, I discovered how my nervous system, conditioning, and avoidance of emotions were shaping my relationships far more than I rea... ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/episodes/how-to-change-your-love-life-by-becoming-emotionally-available-episode-334/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/how-to-change-your-love-life-by-becoming-emotionally-available-episode-334.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.