# How I Learned to Trust Myself (and Why Boundaries Were the Missing Piece) | Episode 360 Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/how-i-learned-to-trust-myself-and-why-boundaries-were-the-missing-piece-episode-360 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/how-i-learned-to-trust-myself-and-why-boundaries-were-the-missing-piece-episode-360.md Podcast: [Fragmented to Whole: Life Lessons from 12 Step Recovery](https://stenobird.com/podcast/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478) Published: 2026-07-13T15:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1868717/episodes/19487273-how-i-learned-to-trust-myself-and-why-boundaries-were-the-missing-piece-episode-360.mp3 Audio file: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1868717/episodes/19487273-how-i-learned-to-trust-myself-and-why-boundaries-were-the-missing-piece-episode-360.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/episodes/how-i-learned-to-trust-myself-and-why-boundaries-were-the-missing-piece-episode-360 Duration seconds: 740 ## Resource Send us Fan Mail In this week’s episode 360 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I’m sharing how my understanding of self-trust completely changed through recovery. For years, I believed I had a "bad picker" when it came to relationships. But over time, I realized the bigger issue wasn't choosing unhealthy partners—it was staying long after I knew the relationship wasn't healthy. What ultimately changed my life wasn't trying harder to trust myself. It was learning to build healthy boundaries. ... ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/episodes/how-i-learned-to-trust-myself-and-why-boundaries-were-the-missing-piece-episode-360/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/fragmented-to-whole-life-lessons-from-12-step-recovery-182478/how-i-learned-to-trust-myself-and-why-boundaries-were-the-missing-piece-episode-360.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.