# Your Essential Year-End Reset Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/focus-on-this-347314/your-essential-year-end-reset Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/focus-on-this-347314/your-essential-year-end-reset.md Podcast: [Focus on This](https://stenobird.com/podcast/focus-on-this-347314) Published: 2025-12-08T08:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://share.transistor.fm/s/e3bd6712 Audio file: https://media.transistor.fm/e3bd6712/fafedf56.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/focus-on-this-347314/episodes/your-essential-year-end-reset Duration seconds: 2582 ## Resource 2025 probably didn’t go according to plan—and that’s exactly why it’s worth paying attention to. In this episode, Marissa and Joel walk you through a simple reflection process for the last 11 months: naming what worked, facing what hurt, and deciding what you actually want to carry into 2026. You’ll learn how to work with your brain’s negativity bias, complete the stress cycle in your body, reframe regret as a helpful signal, and distill the year into a handful of lessons you can build on. Key Takeaways Start with What Worked. Brain dump the last 11 months and name your wins—at work and at home. Use your camera roll and planner as prompts to remember moments you’d otherwise overlook. Let those checkmarks and snapshots remind you: it wasn’t all bad. Don’t Waste the Bruises. List what didn’t go well—disappointments, losses, and the “mixed bag” moments. Instead of reliving them, acknowledge what happened, name the emotions, and ask what still needs to be grieved or processed so you’re not dragging raw hurt into 2026. Pay Attention to Avoidance. Notice the projects, tasks, or conversations you kept procrastinating. Treat that dread as data: Is this a skills gap, a misfit task you shouldn’t own, or something that needs to be rethought entirely? Avoidance is often a clue about what needs to change next year. Let Regret Invite a Do-Over. Treat regret as an “open loop,” not a verdict. If something from 2025 still nags at you, ask, “What unfinished business is this pointing to?” Look for one concrete action—an apology, a boundary, a new habit—that lets you close the loop instead of carrying it forward. Distill the Year into a Few Core Lessons. Turn all of this into simple statements you can act on, like: “My days go best when I start with a plan,” or “I can’t love well when I’m… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/focus-on-this-347314/episodes/your-essential-year-end-reset/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/focus-on-this-347314/your-essential-year-end-reset.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.