# Building social courage: Lessons From 500 lunches with strangers

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Podcast: [Flying Solo](https://stenobird.com/podcast/flying-solo-45727)
Published: 2026-08-07T00:51:00+00:00
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## Resource

Nick Bendel is the author of The 500 Lunches Effect. Nick  transformed his life and career by inviting 500 strangers to lunch over six years. Despite identifying as an introvert, Nick challenged himself to step out of his comfort zone in an experiment he calls “social courage.” In this episode, we dive into what he learned from hundreds of conversations with people from all walks of life—entrepreneurs, politicians, creatives, and more—and what these experiences taught him about networking, building genuine relationships, and overcoming fears and hesitation that is holding you back. Whether you struggle with confidence, hate networking events, or simply want to make more meaningful connections, this episode shares insights on how small interpersonal risks can lead to big personal and professional rewards. Key topics 1. Social Courage and Overcoming Hesitation Social courage is about taking action before you feel ready, even if it means risking embarrassment or failure Confidence is built through action, not the other way around The habit of talking yourself out of opportunities can compound negative effects over time, while practicing social courage leads to more happiness and success Social courage is like a muscle—developed through repetition and must be maintained 2. Building Genuine Relationships Through Networking Networking should focus on building good conversations rather than immediate sales or transactions Many people at networking events desire meaningful connections but aren’t sure how to achieve them Asking genuine questions and showing real interest in others fosters deeper relationships. Becoming a good listener and allowing others to share helps create trust and rapport. 3. The 500 Lunches Experiment Nick committed to meeting people from all walks o…

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