# Dr. Paul Conti: The 10 Trauma Lies That Keep You Stuck (And The Truth That Heals) Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/first-principles-7708985/dr-paul-conti-the-10-trauma-lies-that-keep-you-stuck-and-the-truth-that-heals Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/first-principles-7708985/dr-paul-conti-the-10-trauma-lies-that-keep-you-stuck-and-the-truth-that-heals.md Podcast: [First Principles](https://stenobird.com/podcast/first-principles-7708985) Published: 2026-07-23T13:54:00+00:00 Episode link: https://traffic.megaphone.fm/PODAGEN4919538325.mp3?updated=1776258333 Audio file: https://traffic.megaphone.fm/PODAGEN4919538325.mp3?updated=1776258333 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/first-principles-7708985/episodes/dr-paul-conti-the-10-trauma-lies-that-keep-you-stuck-and-the-truth-that-heals Duration seconds: 1243 ## Resource What if everything you've been told about childhood trauma is actually keeping you trapped? Dr. Paul Conti, one of the world's leading trauma experts, just shattered ten myths that millions of people still believe. In this episode, Adrian Wells sits down with Dr. Conti to reveal why conventional wisdom about trauma recovery is often dead wrong. Here's what's shocking: about 60% of adults worldwide carry childhood trauma, but most are healing in ways that actually make things worse. Dr. Conti exposes the lies therapists, self-help gurus, and even well-meaning friends tell trauma survivors every single day. 🎯 What You'll Learn: • The "just get over it" myth that creates more damage than healing • Why talking about trauma can sometimes retraumatize you (and what works instead) • The brain science behind why some people bounce back while others stay stuck • Dr. Conti's approach that's helped thousands break free from decades-old patterns 👤 Perfect for: lifelong learners dealing with their own past experiences or supporting someone who is 📍 Chapters: [00:00] Adrian introduces the trauma myths destroying lives [02:15] Myth #1: Time heals all wounds (spoiler: it doesn't) [04:45] The brain changes that keep trauma alive years later [07:20] Why traditional therapy fails 70% of trauma survivors [09:30] Dr. Conti's three-step approach that actually works [11:45] The truth about forgiveness that nobody talks about Dr. Conti breaks down complex neuroscience into practical steps you can take today. Whether you're 25 or 65, whether your trauma happened last year or last decade, this conversation will change how you think about healing. 🔔 Never miss an episode: Follow First Principles on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and turn on notifications. New episodes drop daily, your next breakthrou… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/first-principles-7708985/episodes/dr-paul-conti-the-10-trauma-lies-that-keep-you-stuck-and-the-truth-that-heals/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/first-principles-7708985/dr-paul-conti-the-10-trauma-lies-that-keep-you-stuck-and-the-truth-that-heals.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.